I started 75 Hard with the best intentions. I wanted discipline, consistency, and a challenge that would push me physically and mentally. And for a while—it did exactly that. I felt motivated, strong, on top of things, and my energy levels were high.
Until I got overwhelmed.
I actually restarted it after failing the first time, but then I failed again. And at that point, I had to take a step back and really reanalyze what I was doing and why.
As you can probably predict, life caught up with me. Working four jobs, managing real estate and social media, showing up in my relationships, and trying to stay sane… it became a lot. The rigid structure of 75 Hard started to feel less like a motivation tool and more like just another thing on my to-do list. So, I stopped.
And while the old me might’ve felt embarrassed or disappointed to say, “I failed,” the me I am today feels something different: grace.
There may be people out there who think I’m lazy or weak for failing twice—but honestly, I could care less what other people think. They’re not me. They don’t know what 75 Hard was doing to me mentally. I truly started to feel like it was hurting me more than helping me… and that’s not what it’s supposed to do.
What Went Well
Even though I didn’t finish, I still gained so much from the experience:
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I learned how much better I feel when I move daily—even if it’s just a walk.
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I realized how strong I can be when I’m intentional.
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I drank more water, ate better, and showed up for myself—even if it wasn’t perfect.
This isn’t a complete failure to me. Yes, I didn’t finish the challenge—but I still grew.
Why I Stopped
People say “there’s never a perfect time,” and I believed that when I started. But honestly, this wasn’t a sustainable time in my life to take on something so intense.
Between my crazy work schedule, real estate goals, and personal life, something had to give. And it did.
I chose to prioritize my mental health and energy instead of forcing myself to stick to something that no longer felt aligned. I was confident at first that 75 Hard would be good for me—but ultimately, it wasn’t. And that’s okay.
What I’m Taking With Me
I may not have finished 75 Hard—by a long shot, honestly—but it helped me figure out what does work for me:
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Flexibility over perfection. I do best when I can adjust my routine based on how I’m feeling.
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Movement matters. I want to keep moving daily—whether that’s a walk, Pilates, or strength training.
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Self-discipline doesn’t have to be all-or-nothing. Some days you crush your goals. Some days you rest. Both are valid.
Moving Forward
I’m using May as a softer reset. No more rigid rules. Just showing up for myself consistently, listening to my body, and making space for both productivity and peace.
If you’ve ever felt like you “failed” something—whether it was 75 Hard, a goal, or just a habit you were trying to build—I want you to know: You’re not alone. You’re still growing. You’re still trying. And that is always enough.
Let’s give ourselves a little more grace this month, yeah?
xoxo,
Sav